Control

We see lots of images of stern Dominatrixes weiding whips to control their minions, the internet is full of adverts for Mistresses who will shout and scream abuse to gain control. To me control is much simpler than that, control is a state of mind. It is the state of mind of both persons concerned and it is beautiful. I found this pic on Spit is Me on tumblr and I think it says it all.

There is no shouting or screaming, no whips or chains and yet she is clearly in control, he is her plaything her toy

Slave Camp #2

Although the numbers for the first Slave Camp were small, everyone had such a good time we have decided to hold another. Yes number 2 Slave Camp will be held on Friday 28th September. Sessions as before 10am to 12 noon and 1pm to 3pm. Tributes will also remain the same just £30 for a two hour service, £10 deposit payable in advance to hold your place.

For more details see the Slave Camp tab at the top of the page

Mannequin Time

As most of you know my boy j suffers from PTSD and from time to time he has panic attacks. Over the last week or so he has been grumpy and unfocussed and I suspected something was brewing. Sure enough Friday saw a full blown panic attack emerge which took a while to calm down. After it was over I decided to trance j to relax him and release all the stress that had built up and afterwards he was much calmer.

Something we had been meaning to try for a while but time did not allow is turning him into a mannequin. I quite like the idea of having a mindless doll at my disposal to do with as I please, so this morning I decided it was time to give it a try.

I am always amazed at the speed and ease that j goes into trance and this morning was no different. I teased him for a while stroking his forehead without giving the trance command but eventually I did and he fell like a ton of bricks. Good job he was lying down lol. So anyway after a few deepeners to make sure he was nicely relaxed and receptive I placed the trigger and instructions for him to become a mannequin. I have always wondered what the effects of this would be and I have to say I was very pleased with the outcome. j's expression was blank and his eyes glassy just like the shop window dummies you see. I had told him he would have no feelings, emotions or thoughts other than what I told him to have so of course the first emotion I gave him was happiness and a small grin spread across his lips, next (sorry I just couldn't resist) I told him he was horny. Guess what! his cock sprang to attention bursting a couple of buttons on his fly lmao, needless to say I was very pleased with this effect!! I spent a little while longer putting him into various positions, I even sang a couple of nursery rhymes to him putting him into positions suitable to the rhymes which was great fun. Then I brought him out of trance and asked how it was for him. He said it was a blank and he didnt really remember anything except for feeling happy and that he felt incredibly horny. Hmm wonder how that happened!! lol

Well a hypnotist needs to eat so we went off for lunch at the local cafe and on the way home j stopped and looked at me with a funny look "You made me do the teapot didnt you" he groaned I couldn't help but laugh at the embarrassment on his face.

Our First Slave Labour Camp

Some of you may have noticed my page about our new sessions for Slave Labour Camp, well we held our first one last friday. We (Miss Beth and I) had two sessions one in the morning and one in the afternoon.

We were both very nervous and excited at the prospect our stomaches churning with anticipation. Three slaves had booked in which we felt was quite good for a first time. The morning session was just one slave who we shall call "wanker" as he is a self confessed wanker!!

So 10am rolled around and wanker duly arrived and was shown in by j to the dungeon room where Miss Beth and I were waiting for him. Introductions were made and he was instructed to strip, I have to say I was very impressed with the way he neatly folded all his clothes and placed them in a tidy little bundle on top of his shoes in the corner of the room, I felt this boded well for his capabilities with his chores and I was not wrong!!

Next followed a close inspection, we were pleased to note how nicely shaven his bits were and how attractive his smooth bottom was. He had had considerable experience of service before and when told to present he knew what to do. We then led him to the kitchen, on his hands and knees, where the cups and plates from earlier were waiting to be washed and put away and he was set to work. And work he did! I have never been so impressed with a slaves attention to detail, however I did manage to find a few bits he had missed for which he duly apologised and put right immediately. I felt safe to leave him to his work for a few minutes to see what j was up to, I didnt want him to think he was getting away with anything just because there was someone else doing his work!! I found him lazing in a corner day dreaming so I set him to work holding up the post of my bondage frame......with his nose!....while I tried a few of the sapling canes we had cut from the cherry tree in my garden the day before on his backside, his verdict....Ouch they sting!!

Back to wanker to find he had almost finished the kitchen, I do love watching a man on his hands and knees scrubbing the floor, it brings a warm moist feeling to my nether regions!! His next job was the hall where Miss Beth had him licking the skirting boards clean amongst other things. Periodically we would call him into the dungeon room to perform a song and dance for our entertainment, he made a very entertaining teapot after a little prompting with the words although his dancing skills need some work! As his work had been so good we decided he should be allowed to live up to his name and put on a wanking demonstration for us so he was led to the bathroom and instructed that if he could get the extractor fan to gleam he would be allowed to wank. Well needless to say I now have the cleanest shiniest fan in the world!! He was allowed to wank to completion lying on the bathroom floor that he had just cleaned.

So that was the morning session and after a hurried lunch we looked forward to the afternoon session with much enthusiasm

Two subs had booked in for the afternoon, toby and max, max arrived first and came in chatty and confident, its amazing how stripping infront of two Mistresses can deflate a mans cockiness lmao. Again a close inspection took place with a little nipple tweeking and slapping of a nice smooth backside until toby arrived with his bag of tricks. Apparently toby had been training for the slave olympics in the weight lifting catagory so he gave us a demonstration of chains and weights attached to his scrotum piercing which was highly amusing. Then they were both set to work, toby in the massage room and max to finish off the bathroom, max seemed to be easily distracted especially by standing up close to him and blowing in his ear!! pinching his nipples also seemed to distract him somewhat so it was decided to place him in nipple clamps while I whipped his backside a little. toby meanwhile was dutifully continuing with his chores and I watched him scraping wax from the skirting boards with a warm glow rising in my clit. I cant explain how good it feels to see a man on his knees working to please me, to me it is complete submission, due to his medical history toby expected nothing in return simply the pleasure of pleasing Miss Beth and I with a job well done.

Once these chores were done toby entertained us with some more weight lifting and eventually max was allowed to wank with his head on Miss Beths lap. Then as a final surprise toby asked if we would like to have a try at sticking needles into his scrotum. Now needles is something I have never really hankered to do even after watching a demonstration a couple of weeks ago, however it seemed rude to say no so we both had a go at sticking one needle into him. I'll admit it was a lot easier to pierce the skin than I imagined it would be and I think I have found a new kink!! j by the way ran screaming to the hills when I said I enjoyed it but Im sure I can talk him round!!! lmao.

So that was our first Slave Camp. It was so much fun we have decided to hold them regularly, probably the last friday of each month although that may be subject to change. So boys line up, book in and come and have some fun with us.

Upsetting the Daily Routine!!

Im not a great fan of routines but I understand the necessity for them. I worry that routine means dull and boring and can lead to getting in a rut. However the up side of having a daily routine is the fun I can have upsetting it, for instance my boy gets up, walks the dogs, makes the coffee and brings mine up to me in bed. This morning I decided to get up before he came back with the dogs and go out into the garden for a smoke. I heard him come back and put the kettle on so once the coffee was ready I went back inside just in time to catch him heading for the stairs. It was just a small thing but the look of confusion on his face was priceless, especially after I told him I would have my coffee after my shower.

I like surprises, nothing huge, just little things that break up the routine enough to stop me getting bored. I like to plan them and spring them at the most opportune time, the time that causes the most confusion or exasperation in my boy. I love the look on his face that says "You've done it again, havent You" I think deep down I should be a bratty sub but I really dont fancy the punishments I'd get if I were a sub and Im sure I'd get plenty as Im not good at doing as I'm told!!

On to other things that have happened over the last week or two, my boy is a bit of a happy snapper, always taking pics wherever we go and he has a huge collection of snaps he has taken over the years. Recently he decided to put them all together in a collection on Flickr which got them a lot of attention and a suggestion was made that they could be commercially viable. So ever the attention whore he put them up on a fine art site and has has a lot of interest in them. Yesterday he made his first sale so big congratulations to him. If you are interested you can see his prints here http://fineartamerica.com/profiles/11-james-smith.html

A couple of new slaves have entered my service over the last couple of weeks, nico is not really submissive in the general sense of the word but he likes to treat me from time to time and to adore me from afar, more a sort of sugar daddy type thing but he is fun to have around. joe on the otherhand is deeply submissive and craves control and although not vastly experienced I am getting to know him slowly and pushing his limits a little. He seems to be thriving on his experiences so far and Im looking forward to see what he is capable of achieving.

For All You Service Subs

My good friend Miss Beth and I have decided there is a need for a special session for all the service slaves out there and so we have decided to hold a regular Slave Camp at my chambers. If there is enough interest and participation we will be holding it on a monthly basis....probably the last Friday of each month. The first camp will be on Friday 31st August 2012 and you can find all the details on the tab at the top of the page - Slave Labour Camp.

No special expertise is required but if you have a trade you think may be of use to us or if you happen to be a good amateur at anything useful do let us know

Learning the Rules

Tomorrow I drive up to Scotland and bring j home with me on Sunday. This will be the last rip I make to Scotland as this time j will not be returning there but staying here with me. I have to say I am looking forward to not having to say goodbye after a few days and to be able to continue his training uninterupted.

As far as his training goes, with view to his moving here I have upped it a bit in order for him to get used to my way of doing things. Last time he was here his new metal chastity device had just arrived and so a lot of time was spent getting him used to it and lengthening the time he wore it. It went so much better than when he was wearing the plastic devices and after a couple of days he had it on for 24 hour stints at a time. I have to admit though that I missed having his cock available to play with whenever the whim took me without faffing about unlocking him, and so I have come to the conclusion that chastity is something we will play with on a more part time basis in his case.

j is not a pain slut by any means and so to curb a few of his habits which really annoy me I imposed a punishment regime where he earned a demerit point for each time he was caught doing something which annoyed me, for each demerit point he was to receive a agreed upon number of lashes with my new snake whip. We finally agreed on 3 lashes per point (after he tried for 1 lash and I countered with 5!!!!) The punishments were carried out each morning on arrival at my chambers, he had to tell me how many demerits he had earned, apologise for them then drop his pants and assume the position to receive his lashes. Afterwards he was to thank me for administerinng his punishment and making him a better slave. It seemed to work very well as after a day or two he was much better behaved and had a constant reminder each time he rather gingerly sat down!!

My other slaves are all doing well with their training, geraldine continues to please in small ways, his progression is slow but sure and his uncertainty of his capabilities is endearing and I enjoy showing him he is capable of so much more. Each step he takes along his chosen path he takes with almost childlike delight and wonderment which makes him a pleasure to own. alexa continues to be a brat but he is also learning that brattish behaviour does not get him what he wants and slowly but surely he is learning what being a submissive is all about. Its about what I want not what he wants!!

A recent addition to my stable is fido, fido is a young pup who is full of enthusiasm and enjoys his training to the max. He is learning his new commands such as sit, down, roll over and, my personal favourite, beg!! He is also learning to walk on a leash and eat his meals from a bowl on the floor, even when he is not in my presence. He is, at the moment, only allowed water to drink which he must drink either from a bowl when at home or a bottle when he is out. As a special treat when he visits he is allowed some of my special Mistress Champagne to drink but only if he is a very well behaved little puppy.